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Tweet Topic Started: Jun 11 2011, 11:44 PM (4,845 Views)
Jack the IV	Jun 11 2011, 11:44 PM Post #1
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	I'm boring apparently. How do I not be boring?
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Incog	Jun 11 2011, 11:47 PM Post #2
CHEERIO! Posts: 21,769 Group: French Member #6 Joined: December 13, 2007	Who told you you were boring? :s
	Black tulip Tribute to the the greatest of the great.


gs	Jun 11 2011, 11:48 PM Post #3
Slow down Posts: 16,297 Group: Animals Member #1 Joined: December 12, 2007	drink



Ichigo1uk	Jun 12 2011, 12:32 AM Post #4
Huh? Posts: 9,838 Group: A414A Member Member #10 Joined: December 14, 2007	gs Jun 11 2011, 11:48 PM drink It's your only hope.
	Incog Jan 19 2012, 05:34 PM I think unicorns have a higher chance of existing than gods do. I mean, if a mare fell into the ocean and a narwhal raped it, then the mare might just give birth to a unicorn.


Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 12:59 AM Post #5
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	Well she didn't say I'm boring, She said she'd rather work than spend time with me. So one can pretty much infer that she thinks I'm boring.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


gs	Jun 12 2011, 01:06 AM Post #6
Slow down Posts: 16,297 Group: Animals Member #1 Joined: December 12, 2007	no girls like to work, they're ambitious.



Jam	Jun 12 2011, 01:11 AM Post #7
Fruit Based Jam Posts: 7,945 Group: A414A Member Member #98 Joined: July 11, 2008	Maybe she just wants to get her work done.
	Long live Carolus


Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 02:36 AM Post #8
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	She works at an Old Navy Department store. And mart that's my point, obviously there's something wrong with me.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Vondongo	Jun 12 2011, 03:10 AM Post #9
Moo. Posts: 5,434 Group: Member Member #130 Joined: October 15, 2008	Well other than work, what does she like to do? Maybe start doing a bunch of different things and she'll retract her statement.



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 03:24 AM Post #10
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	I asked her if she'd like to go canoeing, which she loves to do. (This was a couple weeks ago) Then I texted her on tuesday to like see what's wrong and she never replied so I don't think I'll be talking to her again.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Vondongo	Jun 12 2011, 03:32 AM Post #11
Moo. Posts: 5,434 Group: Member Member #130 Joined: October 15, 2008	I don't know if that means you're boring. It just means she's not interested, which can be for a variety of reasons.



Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 03:57 AM Post #12
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	dude you need a wingman



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 04:03 AM Post #13
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	It has to be because I'm boring. I was so nice to her. One day she wasn't feeling good I drove to her house and gave her a flower, and I always complimented her on her clothes and looks and stuff. I don't know what I did wrong.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 04:10 AM Post #14
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	dude girls don't like nice guys, honestly they'd have to be really rare to not be shallow enough to choose a nice guy over a douche bag jock



Vondongo	Jun 12 2011, 04:20 AM Post #15
Moo. Posts: 5,434 Group: Member Member #130 Joined: October 15, 2008	You complimented her OOOOOOOOOOOOH that explains it. Don't be afraid to be a little douchey and facetious. Show her you care but keep your tongue sharp and don't bend backwards too much. Don't shower a girl with too much praise.



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 04:31 AM Post #16
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	Yea I really hate being mean. I guess next time I'll just have to be a bit douchey though.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 04:32 AM Post #17
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	if you pretend you're not interested anymore she'll come crawling back.



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 04:36 AM Post #18
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	No she won't.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 04:46 AM Post #19
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	yeah man a hot girl is used to everyone begging for her attention, if you ignore her she'll want to make you notice her again



Jam	Jun 12 2011, 04:51 AM Post #20
Fruit Based Jam Posts: 7,945 Group: A414A Member Member #98 Joined: July 11, 2008	Not if she's a mature adult.
	Long live Carolus


Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 04:53 AM Post #21
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	Since she said she'd rather work than go canoeing with me 2 weeks ago, we both went to my friends graduation party a week ago on saturday but neither of us said a word to eachother, but I texted her "hey" this past tuesday. Other than that no communication so yea I don't think she's coming back.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 04:58 AM Post #22
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	well then she doesnt find you attractive, it only works if they're interested in you. and jam we're talking about superficial girls here



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 05:03 AM Post #23
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	Yea but she's the one that started talking to me and stuff. I asked her out to coffee because her friend said I should. I didn't really start liking her until after we went out.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 05:09 AM Post #24
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	well then she probably stopped liking you after you went out haha what happened during your date did you fuck up somehow?



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 05:19 AM Post #25
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	She posted on facebook that her day was amazing, that was back in February though. When we saw each other at school everyday everything seemed fine. The last couple days of school when we were walking to lunch she'd walk faster than me like she was trying to get away from me or something. (We never sat together at lunch)
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Big Richard	Jun 12 2011, 05:23 AM Post #26
Gay People Read This. Posts: 5,323 Group: World's Finest Member #113 Joined: July 26, 2008	find someone else not as dramatic



Jack the IV	Jun 12 2011, 05:39 AM Post #27
The Gent's Club Posts: 7,869 Group: Mr. Pink Member #43 Joined: February 19, 2008	Yea I'm just trying to figure out what I did wrong for next time.
	In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains, On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows, In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame, The good deeds a man has done before defend him.


Incog	Jun 12 2011, 07:47 AM Post #28
CHEERIO! Posts: 21,769 Group: French Member #6 Joined: December 13, 2007	I'm not sure what to say ... but I will think about. Don't be down mate.
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Incog	Jun 12 2011, 09:04 AM Post #29
CHEERIO! Posts: 21,769 Group: French Member #6 Joined: December 13, 2007	Is this Emily? I don't agree with the "girls don't like nice guys" thing. Girls like guys who are confident and comfortable with themselves, not dicks. It's that dicks generally seem to be confident. Just because you are a nice guy doesn't mean you can't be confident. You do however have to show it a bit. I don't mean saying nasty things and picking on people, but shit like having opinions and expressing them. Humour and mild flaming are pretty good as well. Don't be excessive with your interactions, I think the flower was a bit too much. That's something you might do with someone you're already going out with and even then it's kinda big. Show you're there but sometimes take a good distance from her, I think it's called playing hard-to-get. But I'm not too familiar with how it works. Something you need to avoid is having the mindset of "she's walking faster than I am, she must not want to talk to me". I've had similar thoughts now and then.... they're completely fruitless thoughts. 9 times out of 10 her actions aren't to avoid you and aren't directed at you as a subtle message or anything, they're just actions. Sometimes you get paranoid about that sort of stuff, happened to me a few times and they just bite you in the ass. In the mean time, whether you're interested in continue trying to woo her or not, you should take a break from her. Don't fret about it too much and try to do something interesting. Try to find something about yourself you want to improve and work on that. Some time in the future try to contact her again, casually, and see how it goes. Maybe talk to some other girls in the mean time. My last bit of advice sucks. I hate it. But girls like guys who dress well. I have no idea how you dress obviously, but I'm saying it's something to look after because girls, even the best ones that aren't shallow at all, pay attention to it. I guess it goes with the confidence thing... idk. But pay attention to it and don't neglect yourself. My lady friend bitches 24/7 about how I dress. And don't sweat it, you're not boring. You're just a good guy trying to be nice, but sometimes girls are CRC Incompatible. Reboot your internet and comp and try again later.
	Black tulip Tribute to the the greatest of the great.


DragonLegend	Jun 12 2011, 01:08 PM Post #30
Field Marshal Posts: 15,575 Group: Member Member #40 Joined: January 19, 2008	You know, this reminds me of the movie Bedazzled. Have you seen it, Jack? See it. I think you'll understand.



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