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| Adams | Jul 8 2011, 08:16 PM Post #151 |
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Her advice is shit Jack, you have been yourself since day 1 and has it hasnt worked. You need to change. |
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| gs | Jul 8 2011, 08:21 PM Post #152 |
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nice lol that reminds of that convo incog |
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| Incog | Jul 8 2011, 08:26 PM Post #153 |
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CHEERIO!
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i think i know what your talking about but yeh ::) |
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| _Saladin_ | Jul 8 2011, 11:47 PM Post #154 |
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Hate to interrupt the manninizing of jack, but I don't think either one of you is wrong. You can be yourself, just be a different part of yourself. People aren't static one dimensional creatures, your personality changes a lot depending on whether or not you god damn feel like it. Just cause adams is telling you to change jack, doesn't mean you can't be yourself and still do that. IMO, being so centered around the girl isn't healthy. When does she ever compliment you? Don't put in more effort than her, that doesn't make sense. You should take the initiative though, that's different. |
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| gs | Jul 8 2011, 11:57 PM Post #155 |
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people value "being yourself" waaaay too highly. no one is ever him or herself. people make compromises all the time and i mean 100% of the time when around others, they don't say whatever they're thinking for a reason. if you think acting a certain way will make someone like you more by all means do so, but do consider if it's really worth all that effort first. if you have to change too much to click with someone it's no good long term. |
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 02:07 AM Post #156 |
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life is grand :)
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ur so full of shiz!
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 02:16 AM Post #157 |
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life is grand :)
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He's still not saying CHANGE...I like it SALllly :P Very true on paying too much attention...but that goes back to it becoming annoying as well. Ofc we all have different sides to our personality but it's really about what you have in common...do you enjoy spending time together...do you have like interests other than sex?!?!I do get lesbos hitting on me but that doesn't really count now does it...I'm sure every one of u has been hit on by someone of the same sex. I even got hit on by a gay guy once ...disturbing. The fact of the matter is i am a chick so i'm giving advice on my experience with guys...unlike you adams. If you like being fake that's ur biz but it won't last.
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| gs | Jul 9 2011, 02:20 AM Post #158 |
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i think lesbians hit on straight girls more often than gay guys hit on straight guys (i've never heard of this happening except as a joke) because girls are more... let's say adventurous with people of the same sex
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 02:24 AM Post #159 |
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loool u think so?! This just might be a fantasy of yours...I'm not buying it :P |
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| gs | Jul 9 2011, 02:30 AM Post #160 |
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i thought it was pretty well known
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 02:31 AM Post #161 |
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life is grand :)
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apparently not to meh
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| The_Fry_Cook_of_Doom | Jul 9 2011, 07:10 AM Post #162 |
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:OOOOOOOOOOOOMAAANN
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I like to believe that there are a greater amount of lesbian women than there are gay men. |
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| Jack the IV | Jul 9 2011, 07:13 AM Post #163 |
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Tbh if 100 people were placed in an isolated environment from birth they'd all be bisexual. |
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| The_Fry_Cook_of_Doom | Jul 9 2011, 07:17 AM Post #164 |
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:OOOOOOOOOOOOMAAANN
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Are you trying to say the prevalence of abnormality amongst is humans is 100%? |
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| Adams | Jul 9 2011, 09:18 AM Post #165 |
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Im not saying change everything. Theres obviously things he needs to tweak. Were talking changing for the better. If Jacks talking to a girl and hes going all red and drooling or w/e the problem is your not going to say "Yeah Jack keep doing that! Girls love guys being themselves!". Sals right peoples personalitys change anyway, I know that my mood plays a big part on my personality. Theres one thing I disagree with what you said too Goodspeed, if your constantly thinking all the time, "what can I do to make this person like me". Then your just going to fail. |
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 12:47 PM Post #166 |
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life is grand :)
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If he's turning red and drooling then he needs medication and that's not being urself anyway....that's being NERVOUS basically. Be relaxed in who you are...if you have to be someone else for them to like you then why bother...you can't keep up the charade forever...it would be exhausting. BUT i see what your saying...there are going to be things that he/she likes more about you and you're going to play those bits up ofc.
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| Adams | Jul 9 2011, 01:04 PM Post #167 |
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Jack needs to change then doesnt he? Dumbass |
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| gs | Jul 9 2011, 01:40 PM Post #168 |
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most of it should happen automatically. obviously (i also said this earlier in thread) if you think about it too much you're basically gonna shut down because you're overthinking everything you say and do. |
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 05:43 PM Post #169 |
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BE RELAXED IN WHO U R ...retard! (second half of what u quoted u downy) Edited by Goodsbee, Jul 9 2011, 05:45 PM.
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| gs | Jul 9 2011, 05:51 PM Post #170 |
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here we go. it's on. buckle seatbelts guys |
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| Jam | Jul 9 2011, 05:56 PM Post #171 |
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Drooling? |
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| Adams | Jul 9 2011, 06:51 PM Post #172 |
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Yeah, Jack isnt relaxed in who he is. If you want proof read the first post in this thread. Dumbass. Also I do not appreciate you mocking those that were born with a disability they can do nothing about. You are a bad person |
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| The_Fry_Cook_of_Doom | Jul 9 2011, 07:03 PM Post #173 |
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:OOOOOOOOOOOOMAAANN
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Jack won't have anything to be relaxed about at all if he doesn't get online soon. |
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| Goodsbee | Jul 9 2011, 08:28 PM Post #174 |
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he never said he turned red and drooled ...that was ur take on it all and downy in your case should be considered a compliment...i was being NICE! Being relaxed in who you are is NOT changing urself ... read slowly...maybe it will sink in eventually.
Edited by Goodsbee, Jul 9 2011, 08:33 PM.
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| Incog | Jul 9 2011, 10:49 PM Post #175 |
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CHEERIO!
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definitely 100% true |
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| gs | Jul 9 2011, 10:54 PM Post #176 |
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dude http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O2aH4XLbto |
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| Incog | Jul 9 2011, 11:03 PM Post #177 |
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CHEERIO!
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yes. i think it's a matter of ... trying to show one of your good sideS. idk how to explain. take a quality of yours and act in a manner to show that quality. ![]() i feel that what needs to change isn't the person himself but more how the person acts. it's not the same thing. someone can keep the same personality but be a bit more out going to others. like if you like goofy weird humour but aren't out going, but then you kind of make the effort to get to talk to people and once the situation feels relaxed enough start with a little bit of goofy shit. fundamentally you're still the same person it's just that you're more proactive about being the person you are to more people kind of a complicated thought but it makes sense actually. ah there's an expression that i heard from a french diplomat (tellyrand), really good btw ![]() "women sometimes forgive those who rushes an occasion, but never those who miss it" oh and two things that are key are always being positive and always being honest |
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| Incog | Jul 9 2011, 11:10 PM Post #178 |
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CHEERIO!
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pretty nice one yeh |
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| Jack the IV | Jul 10 2011, 12:54 AM Post #179 |
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Sorry mate, had to work all day today, same with tmrw ![]() And jen is right, I think too much about what I should say instead of actually saying something, and I just sit there not saying anything. If I would just talk and be myself everything would possibly be ok
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| _Saladin_ | Jul 10 2011, 12:11 PM Post #180 |
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Are you sure? What if you're wrong? Sometimes we delude ourselves by saying that we're valuable when in reality we're not. It could just be a bias of yours that needs to believe that you're worth more. Maybe you should just think about it a little bit more. |
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4:43 PM Jul 13
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ur so full of shiz!
Very true on paying too much attention...but that goes back to it becoming annoying as well. Ofc we all have different sides to our personality but it's really about what you have in common...do you enjoy spending time together...do you have like interests other than sex?!?!


Being relaxed in who you are is NOT changing urself ... read slowly...maybe it will sink in eventually.



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