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Jam
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Jul 10 2011, 11:32 PM
lol there are more negative ones than positive :/

emotional state = positive emotions - negative emotions
negative emotions > positive emotions
emotional state = negative

simple math.
Because your emotional state consists of every possible emotion at once...
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That's terrible math. Not all emotions have an equal chance of happening. Emotions are the only parts of life worth living for. What do you feel when you're having fun? Some kind of emotion, I guarantee.
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Jul 10 2011, 05:28 PM
Jack the IV
Jul 10 2011, 03:12 PM
Actually I was thinking last night and I think when I meet someone I automatically think they don't like me, and only after they do or say something that shows kindness will I really begin to open up to them.
If you meet someone new for the first time. What do you do exactly?
Not talk to them unless they talk to me.
In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains,
On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows,
In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame,
The good deeds a man has done before defend him.
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Jack the IV
Jul 11 2011, 12:50 AM
Adams
Jul 10 2011, 05:28 PM
Jack the IV
Jul 10 2011, 03:12 PM
Actually I was thinking last night and I think when I meet someone I automatically think they don't like me, and only after they do or say something that shows kindness will I really begin to open up to them.
If you meet someone new for the first time. What do you do exactly?
Not talk to them unless they talk to me.
Suggestion: be more outgoing and feel free to introduce yourself to them.
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Adams' posts sound like a parody of the ramblings of a famous relationships blogger I know. I won't name him lest anyone here actually read his nonsense and fall for it, but seriously...

Jack, I'm guessing that's because you're afraid of looking like a fool if things don't work out as planned? That's understandable, but mostly lacks basis in reality. A good way to get over this is to meet people whose opinion you couldn't care less about. Say, strangers from far away, people you're unlikely to meet again. Practice having conversations with them; even small talk will do. If it's a disaster, no harm done. If it works out, eventually you'll gain enough confidence to be this way around 'normal' people. Trust me, it's all in your head. You're being your own worst enemy here. If you're embarrassed or ashamed of something about yourself, and that's what's holding you back, change it.
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Dragon is making sense except for the "normal ppl" bit... just be urself around everyone (you don't have to test it out on ppl is all i'm saying)....the more you do it the more comfy it will become, don't shelter or hide yourself. You need to overcome that fear of ppl not liking you because as gs said...you are very likable. Don't let this one chick make you feel bad about urself!

You don't want to turn into a Howard Hughes hiding from the world, peeing in jars and never clipping ur fingernails (andy) ... ok that's a bit of an exaggeration but still!

Red's right, put urself out there...what's it going to hurt. That's why ppl date, to figure out who they like and who they want to spend their time with...it does take time to really get to know someone but covering up who you really are is just leading to disappointment for the both of you. Don't put so much pressure on yourself!
Edited by Goodsbee, Jul 11 2011, 01:56 AM.
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lol just have fun with people, who cares what those kids think of you anyway. Its high school, its a fucking joke
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gs
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Slow down
calm down people my post was a joke

calm down. don't get all hysterical

CALM DOWN

JUST STAY CALM
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gs
Jul 11 2011, 03:23 AM
calm down people my post was a joke

calm down. don't get all hysterical

CALM DOWN

JUST STAY CALM
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life is grand :)
lol wtf...
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Jul 10 2011, 11:20 PM
I prefer not to be an emotionless robot...but that's just me :/ I'm not talking about being an emo! Emotions are part of being human..eos.

Feelings make everything better... and they are not a sign of weakness AT ALL. Also, wouldn't being in love be pointless without emotion? If ur not happy how can u know what it is to be sad...or even appreciate it??

Yes adams, ur rage holds u back.

Postive Human Emotions

Adequate Awe Assured Able
Capable Certain Charmed Cheerful
Comfortable Compassion Courageous Confidence
Determined Delighted Eager Energetic
Enthusiastic Excited Exhilarated Expectant
Elation Empathy Excellent Fascinated
Glad Good Great Grateful
Glorious Glamorous Graceful Happy
Hopeful Humorous Inspired Interested
Joyful Magnificent Lively Love
Pleasure Playfulness Peaceful Pleasant
Powerful Pride Positive Relaxed
Relieved Satisfied Surprised Sympathy
Stable Sublime Superior Thrilled


Negative human emotions

Annoyed Anxious Apprehensive Agonize
Anger Anxiety Apathy Bored
Burdened Cautious Competitive Concerned
Confused Contempt Depressed Destructive
Disgusted Distracted Doubtful Disappointed
Exasperated Exhausted Embarrassment Envy
Frustrated Fear Guilty Greed
Grief Harassed Hesitant Hostile
Ignored Impatient Indifferent Intimidated
Isolated Irritated Jealous Jumpy
Lonely Mad Manipulated Miserable
Obnoxious Overwhelmed Panic Pressured
Remorse Revenge Shame Sad
Scared Shocked Suspicious Stress
Tired Uncomfortable Uneasy Used
Wary Weary Wasteful
Fuck you and fuck your emotions, hoe
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life is grand :)
(blabla)
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Jul 11 2011, 01:54 AM
You need to overcome that fear of ppl not liking you because as gs said...you are very likable.
Dont bullshit, you dont know him. No one here does.

Jack if I could talk to you face to face your problems would be sorted by now.

All of this advice wont work because its making you think about it too much, my head would be fried if I were you. Dont over think it. Just stop caring about whether people like you or not. Think what would Adams do.

I dont talk to people either Jack unless they talk to me first really. Im going to guess that the difference is that I CAN talk to people first if I need to. Whats the complication its only conversation.

Serious question Jack, do you have any friends?

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Jul 11 2011, 04:59 PM
Goodsbee
Jul 11 2011, 01:54 AM
You need to overcome that fear of ppl not liking you because as gs said...you are very likable.
Dont bullshit, you dont know him. No one here does.

Jack if I could talk to you face to face your problems would be sorted by now.

All of this advice wont work because its making you think about it too much, my head would be fried if I were you. Dont over think it. Just stop caring about whether people like you or not. Think what would Adams do.

I dont talk to people either Jack unless they talk to me first really. Im going to guess that the difference is that I CAN talk to people first if I need to. Whats the complication its only conversation.

Serious question Jack, do you have any friends?

Oh Christ, this made me LOL
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Jack the IV
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Jul 11 2011, 04:59 PM
Goodsbee
Jul 11 2011, 01:54 AM
You need to overcome that fear of ppl not liking you because as gs said...you are very likable.
Dont bullshit, you dont know him. No one here does.

Jack if I could talk to you face to face your problems would be sorted by now.

All of this advice wont work because its making you think about it too much, my head would be fried if I were you. Dont over think it. Just stop caring about whether people like you or not. Think what would Adams do.

I dont talk to people either Jack unless they talk to me first really. Im going to guess that the difference is that I CAN talk to people first if I need to. Whats the complication its only conversation.

Serious question Jack, do you have any friends?

lmao, yes I have friends. Two besties and an assortment of others.
In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains,
On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows,
In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame,
The good deeds a man has done before defend him.
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life is grand :)
Everyone else knew you had friends jacky ....

for someone who "doesn't know" jacky u sure are willing to give him your mind blowing advice adams. :rolleyes:
With this type of guaranteed successful advice your willing to give jack, maybe u should think about becoming a therapist/life coach....world renowned psychologist....u would totally bank. pfff

waiting for witty time ...hurry up ADAMS!
Edited by Goodsbee, Jul 11 2011, 05:36 PM.
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I like him as I know him now, some guy on the internet, if I met him in real life I probably wouldnt talk to him he probably wouldnt talk to me.

I like that Goodsbee, Adams "Life Coach". The world needs me. My advice for you Goodsbee *Free of charge*, leave these forums and shave your moustache. Your 40 y/o and talking to a bunch of teenagers. Time to grow up. Thank me later.

I have something similar Jack, like 4/5 best mates and then just the rest. They way I look at it is, why do you even care what other people really think if you have already got best mates?

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100% fail...at even making me chuckle...adams ur pathetic....keep trying.
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Lmao that response means only one thing. I just got to you. Win.
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you didn't say anything that means anything to me...so fail ...what don't you get adams? fail is fail ...poor u (saladin)
Edited by Goodsbee, Jul 11 2011, 05:45 PM.
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Translation: "Adams you just said something that meant something to me. So you win...You see right through me Adams. You got me, a win is a win. You are like a God to me. I appreciate you Adams. Thank you."

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This is great. Just like the old days
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life is grand :)
looool...Delusional disorder is a psychiatric diagnosis denoting a psychotic mental disorder that is characterized by holding one or more non-bizarre delusions...seek help and take ur meds...maybe one day they will help. (sloothbie)
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I feel the winner song coming on

Here it comes

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FD9Kb5RlsP0
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life is grand :)
love to play more but i have a date ghehe ...have fun being u adams!
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Fuck off
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Jul 11 2011, 03:39 AM
gs
Jul 11 2011, 03:23 AM
calm down people my post was a joke

calm down. don't get all hysterical

CALM DOWN

JUST STAY CALM
Delete all the posts in the thread after the one that I'm quoting, and plz lock. Thread needs to end on this.
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Jack, if you're unsure of saying something to someone try to imagine how you would react if someone said the same thing to you and remember that they would probably have the same reaction. I know you already know that people would have similar reactions, but it's a state of mind thing. You have to actively change how you realize the situation to rise above the mind fog.
Long live Carolus
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CHEERIO!

hehehe

ok goodsbee and adams i really like you both, in different ways. but i'd be a fookin' liar if i said i didn't chuckle a bit at some of your exchanges. just like good old times indeed adams (dw goodsbee i (l) u). also funny is the "the world needs adams" and "think like adams would". rofl tbh, just rofl

about emotions: there's some grain of truth in "emotions are for the weak", but the message is incomplete. sometimes in life you get a hard break or have to do something tough (or annoying i guess). at those times it's best to shut off and try to ignore your feelings of sadness or whatever. it bogs the mind. it's better to grit thy teeth and focus your mind on something rather then let your emotions have free reign in your decision making and actions. taking emotions out of the equation also helps you look at things coldly and make what you believe is objectively the best choice/solution.

however, we are human beings as has been said before. we aren't cold machines we're biological stuff that happens to have feelings. feelings and emotions kind of define who we are. for example my life revolves around being aircraft and flying, simply because i get a kick whenever i fly or see a nice looking plane pass over me. without those emotions of joy and/or passion, i wouldn't have taken the path i have today. i guess you could say we are guided in life by our emotions, which is somehing i'm pretty sure of. besides, nothing would be interesting at all if we didn't have the emotional kick that comes with it. ;p
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Jul 11 2011, 07:03 PM
Jack, if you're unsure of saying something to someone try to imagine how you would react if someone said the same thing to you and remember that they would probably have the same reaction. I know you already know that people would have similar reactions, but it's a state of mind thing. You have to actively change how you realize the situation to rise above the mind fog.
Yea, that's actually a good suggestion. Thanks jam :)
In battle, in the forest, at the precipice in the mountains,
On the dark great sea, in the midst of javelins and arrows,
In sleep, in confusion, in the depths of shame,
The good deeds a man has done before defend him.
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