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Star6482
Oct 1 2009, 08:02 PM
Danielle
Oct 1 2009, 07:27 PM
You have to personally over come that sense of obligation. Some people can. Some people can't.
This is exactly it, in my opinion it would have been interesting to see him over come it.

Just like I suppose it is your opinion that I dont seem to want to understand what it is like for someone in that situation....guess its my turn to be offended.
Because you are a friend I am trying really hard not to get pissed and say something I shouldn't. So I am going to explain this in the nicest way possible. A person who has been adopted (whether it be by both parents or just a single one) never over comes that sense of obligation the first time. It is something they have to process and come to terms with. Unless someone has been there they can't understand it. So, no I don't think you don't want to understand. I never said those words. What I am saying is unless you have been there you can't. And what pisses me off is people (not you just people in general) assume that they can. It would be like one woman who hasn't been raped saying they understood to a woman who has been raped. Until you are there you never fully understand. I am sure there are things in your life that I can't begin to understand because I haven't been through them.

I understand that you don't like the idea of drama. However that is the basis of this show. Drama. There are times I think they go over board. Georgina is a prime example of that. She is the prime example of over the top and uncalled for drama. Georgina aside, in this case it is warranted. It is a real form of drama. You have to make this choice between two mothers and two fathers. Your adopted mother telling you it is okay makes it worse. I wish I knew how to explain how and why it does but I'm not sure I can. Its like when it was just you wanting it you could do it out of defience or selfish desire. When your adoptive parent says go for it, well it suddenly becomes this irrational thing where you are scared that your adoptive mother is trying to pawn you off on the real parents or you feel like the are telling you that because they think it is what you want to hear. Does that make sense?

Maybe this thing with Scott won't be as horrible as you think it will be. And if it is...well thats basically because of Georgina and her nuttiness. Which, and I know this makes me in a minority, I can't stand. I have had it with her insanity. It feels like whenever she is around drama follows. In short, if we want there to be less drama Georgina has to go. JMO

(And I am sorry if you were offended. It wasn't my intent because I wasn't trying to say you didn't want to understand. Like I said its hard to understand something you haven't been through.)
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