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Cockroach infestation.; What's the best approach for new people?
Topic Started: 19 May 2009, 11:06 AM (3,201 Views)
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gee thats not the kinda growth i was talking about..

but you reap what u sow-so let us know what happened

meehhh

shes still got it
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oh was just wondering if your bible burial was fruitfull ? :)
oh and does anyone else reread their own posts and think they sound like a
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conradw
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I've just read this thread, and yes Arazec, I agree with what you just said.

Also, I agree with the message of loving.
But back to the question raised at the beginning of all of this:



What the hell kind of prudes are you? So what if some guy chats up a girl: That is how human society works. I promise you, that you would not be here today if some dude (or dudette) didn't think to him/her-self "I'll talk to her/him."

And weird guys will always exist. But it sounds like all these girls are a bit stuck up - too good to talk to the new girl and too good to consider any of the guys worthy of them (Jesus CHRIST! if I was surrounded by girls like that, I'd throw myself at the new person if only to warn them off!).

Incidentally, did you find it odd that the list you mentioned didn't even have your name on it? I mean, what a kick in the nads! And you were calling that other guy emasculated? woooweee!

but wait - did you really expect girls to talk about stuff like this with you? Girls don't do that - and if they do, your problems are even worse - you've become "one of the girls."

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Everyone grows to understand what it is to be a man sooner or later. If you're still wondering, don't worry, you'll get it. It isn't about being meek or submissive, and it isn't about being loud and obnoxious.

Also, you don't have to force boys and girls to be separate - if they're supervised, they'll behave.

And I've said what I think about Paul enjoining us to marry people who are Christians: Don't let Paul's bigotry get in the way of your love (same goes for homosexuality).



--- I think I've made enough people mad for one day. If you disagree with me on any point, you know where to find me B)
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what list without whose name on it? :blink:

@now i read your post mine dosnt sound so bad :P

and umm the bit about being a man ? thats a great conversation i would really love to hear about that one......
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I don't see Paul's "Marry a Christian" bit as bigotry. Neither do I see it as a rule. I see it as a tip: If you marry someone who is of the same, or very, very similar, faith as you are, your life will be a lot easier.

I've had three girlfriends in as many years*. The first was...well, very visibly not a Christian. The second, more of a "good girl" but still not Christian. The girlfriend I have now is Christian, and I'll say that it's a lot easier to remember the limits when both of you agree on them. It's late here in AZ, so I'll close for now. I'll expound later.

*I'm not a "player", or a guy who uses 'em and leaves 'em. I just...want someone to fill that last hole in my soul that just isn't filled by anything else, not even the Big Man Upstairs. It's that feeling of someone who loves you with all their heart, wants to spends the rest of their life with you, and is physically there. God loves forever, unconditionally, but isn't physically present and isn't really on an equal level. Parents always love you, unconditionally, and are physically present, but just aren't equal. It's a comforting feeling, knowing someone misses you just as much as you miss them.

*sniff*

Great. Now I'm getting all teary-eyed.
Edited by dragonshardz, 11 Nov 2009, 02:14 AM.
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I know that feeling dragonshardz. And I think you put it quite well :)

(Gee thanx man, now you've got ME all teary-eyed)
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I was getting a little misty-eyed myself Dragonshardz.

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If you marry someone who is of the same, or very, very similar, faith as you are, your life will be a lot easier.

pff! who wants easy? Do you sit exams because they're easy? you don't ask girls out because you think it will be easy (I mean that literally - YOU don't, I on the other hand...).
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True, things that are hard are worth doing. What I meant is that there will be less trouble and domestic conflict in a marriage with compatible values.

Also, asking girls out isn't the hard part...it's getting up the cojones to do so. And it doesn't have to be elaborate, in fact many girls are more likely to turn you down when it's elaborate, as opposed to a simple "Will you go out with me?"

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Actually I would agree with Dragonshardz on this one. If your goal is a stable harmonious partnership, you are much better off with someone who has equal values and perspectives as your self.

Just imagine what would happen if someone like me and someone like ARAZEC were trying to build a household together. That's not building your house on sand, that's building it on nitroglycerin. On fire. With piranhas swimming in it.
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hey not so fast !!!
this is me-



10An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.
rare= precious
11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.
=trustworthy
12She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
=kind Her Character
as a Wife

13She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.
=works joyfully
14She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.
=goes extra mile to get choicest goods
15She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.
=disciplined
16She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.
=enterprising, prudent with money
17She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.
=energetic
18She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.
=good steward
19She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.
=diligent Her Devotion
as a Homemaker

20She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
=compassionate, generous Her Generosity
as a Neighbor

21She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.
=provident
22She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
=elegant
23Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
=influential
24She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.
=industrious Her Devotion
as a Homemaker

25Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.
=poised
26She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
=wise Her Influence
as a Teacher

27She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
=manages her home
28Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:
=praiseworthy
29"Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all."
=distinguished Her Effectiveness
as a Mother

30Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
=God-fearing
31Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.
=honored Her Excellence
as a Person


~ Proverbs 31:10-31

........untill of course he wants her to watch other ppl having.......
then theres a Octanitrocubane explosion :) and life as a widow :whistle: :whistle:



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Thanx for proving my point ARAZEC :D
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:D :D so we fail to see eye to eye on the murder bit - a little contradictory i see-well its your job to live with understanding of women -thats a lifelong behaviour advocated in the bible :)



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Nice metaphor Conc.
You made my day happy again after a disappointment in school.

Ssh.

Dragonshardz is making sense here, and for one, I would like to know a girl before I date her. Having never dated a girl, I'm making air balls here, but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who wouldn't enjoy going on a date with a girl and finding out she knows three different black belts of kung fu and works on a ranch and doesn't flinch at gelding horses.
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conradw
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That sounds like an awesome date!

and you go on dates to get to know each other better not because you know each other so well!
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It's still probably best to know more about a girl than just that she's hot, though, especially since lesbianism and bisexuality are more in the open.

Lue: It's simple, all ya do is go up to one and say, "Will you go out with me?" Worst she can do is say no.

Well, actually, the worst she can do is say, "No, I'm a lesbian." and slap you. Which is why it's best to know her as a person first.

Also, if you just go out with a girl because she's good-looking, you're not respecting her at all. You're just treating her like an object.

Rebuffs?
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