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Internet Pornography; A sin that needs to be talked about
Topic Started: 18 Aug 2009, 09:13 PM (12,565 Views)
Concolor
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Thanx for patronizing me a bit back ARAZEC, I think that may be good for me :)

Anyway, at what point in my argument do I fail to show that a product may not necessarily be bad even if the industry is?
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conradw
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I pose the question to all who care answer:

What is love without lust?

(yes, it's from a song, an internet for the first person to say which one)
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love :D

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conradw
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If your husband/wife didn't find you attractive, what would you think?
Edited by conradw, 2 Nov 2009, 03:42 PM.
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thats where the message gets confused -sexual attraction IN MARRAGE is not about lust.
if you ask-do we have intense or unrestrained sexual cravings for each other or an overwhelming desire or craving for each other the answer is yes and in marrage thats O.k-we get fufilled by pleasing each other- Thats part of whats called LOVE and MARRIAGE.

*srry if its awkward for anyone to read about sex in marriage -but thats how God intended it not on some show reel between actors or a filmed abduction or with Mr Ed.

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conradw
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So when its in marriage, it is called love, but when its outside of marriage its called lust?

But can't people be in love, but not married?

Similarly, can't people be married but not in love?
Edited by conradw, 2 Nov 2009, 04:01 PM.
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no its not called different things IT IS DIFFERENT THINGS

let me ask you are you married?
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conradw
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No, but don't mistake my liberty for ignorance.

intense sexual cravings inside of marriage: love
intense sexual cravings outside of marriage: lust

When you're not married, you're doing it for yourself. When you are, you're doing it with/for the other person.

Except... what if I only marry her because she's got big jugs and that's the only way I'll get to sleep with her?
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your liberty :whistle: :whistle: :whistle:

o.k well if you only married her for her Boobs then that sounds like Lust
I think your getting it now-its more to do with the "if only"
How would you like it if someone only married you because of your money? or your position? and thats the only reason?

Also you have some strange misconceptions about marriage-or are they just stupid hypotheticals....
Marriage...... a beautifull union of liberties :)

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conradw
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Okay. So we've established a few things:
You can have love in marriage
you can have love outside of marriage
you can have lust in marriage
you can have lust outside of marriage

But you see, here is my point: That "intense sexual cravings for each other" that you say are a part of love are a part of love even if they aren't married. Similarly, that selfishness that you mentioned can still exist within marriage.
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no WE havnt established those YOU just said them.
But none of them put Lust apart from Love into a good light....

Lust can mean different things and does not have to be just about sex,it can be anything desirable.


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conradw
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well, I thought we had agreed. "o.k well if you only married her for her Boobs then that sounds like Lust" - that sounds like an agreement...

I suppose that a broader definition of lust could extend further than sex, yes. I don't see your point though...

see the definition of lust I usually go with is "intense sexual cravings."

So when I said what is love without lust, it was to say that without intense sexual cravings love is emaciated.
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Uh, did anyone think to ask the Bible what love was?
Anyone?
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well thats really sad :(

so if your wife was pregnant and you didnt have "intense" sexual desires for her (for whatever reason) you would see your love as emaciated?
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conradw
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Luemas, God is Love. Done.

@arazec, are you suggesting that I would find my wife less beautiful because she is carrying our child?
Also, a little known fact: you can still have sex when you're pregnant.
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