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Young Pregnancy
Topic Started: 31 Mar 2011, 05:57 PM (1,536 Views)
PsychoKitteh
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I think nobody should be able to tell her what to do with her own body. Bring up new options to her but don't force anything on her, it's more stress, and wrong to boss her around.
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Curley Q
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That's good. And the best thing you can do for her is to pray for her and support her no matter what decision she makes.
Edited by Curley Q, 6 Apr 2011, 09:39 PM.
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Im a little late... but personally...I donīt acept the abort...but iīve never had a friend who was pregnated ( one time..."almost") and I never could get bith to a child for biological reasons.
That child for me, is a life, a life that can be the best perosn on the world or a generic guy and girl.
Certanly...i doesnīt have the stress that, your friend is having...so i think is really hiprocrite for me if i sai something like " Hey no!...you MUST do this!". Im not in her shoes...so i canīt imagine his conditions.

But. If i were in a situation like that...iīll try t help her, listen to her...even if i canīt do nothint " really" helpfull like searching some family for the child. After all, support her like a true friens is the better that you can do...
At least that, you try to seek her a family...or some kind of orphanage...i donīt know.
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Afalstein
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If she really feels she can't support the child and she doesn't know anyone else who can, she should put it up for adoption. There's absolutely no reason to kill the child, there's always plenty of other options.

EDIT: And, reading PsycohKitteh and CurlyQ above, yes it does make a difference what choice she makes. As Christians you not only have the right, but the obligation to try to talk her out of an abortion. Good grief, you talk as if it makes no difference whether the baby lives or dies.
Edited by Afalstein, 13 Apr 2011, 01:10 PM.
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I forgot to post this, but she aborted it...like a week ago...yeah
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Afalstein
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I'm very sorry to hear that.
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Yeah, but it was the best thing for HER when it comes to comfortable mortality i suppose
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As Afalstein said, it was the best thing for her...

So sad though...
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It's always sad when you lose a child..or could have been child.. :'(

But..this always helps me when I know it didn't feel any pain and it didn't know what was happening.
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How do you know?
lets start another debate-fetus pain. delightful
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Concolor
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@Cheesebug: How is your friend doing now (emotionally), is she gonna be ok?

And though this is frankly none of my business, but did she talk to some adults about it? And did they confront the guy who got her pregnant?
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She's okay, she was never too great toi begin with ij the first plae (little juvelille deliquency aspect)
no she never told an adult....
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what about the guy?

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never told him either
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I'm sorry, I think I missed something. Whom is this best for, in terms of what? I THINK what you said up there was that the death was the best for the baby in terms of a comfortable death, but your statement to Vampira seems to counter that.

Good to hear that your friend is okay, I suppose, I've heard that abortions can be emotionally--and physically--traumatizing for the mothers. But from the sounds of things, she really should have talked it over more. Were you the only person she discussed it with? Like Concolor says, it's none of my business, but I am curious.
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