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some problems a dragon faces; Burai Kazuma's whine thread
Topic Started: Sep 26 2012, 10:20 PM (813 Views)
buraikazuma
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as long as I stay in my room, I live... the candle does not burn
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So, where to begin? Well my brother decided that he should pick a fight with me because he couldn't afford a game he preordered from gamestop because he didn't save up the money though he was planning well in advance... somehow that devolved into why my sister moved out and how my dad doesn't want me living in the house anymore. When I told him I couldn't spare any money for him to ride the bus home from school, he told me that I'm the reason why he's failing out of some of his classes (instead of you know, working on his study habits and cutting back on his gaming) and that I'm an unintelligent person for not being in school.


He thinks I'm leeching off my family by choice, he doesn't seem to realize how difficult it is to get a job after being fired from your last one and spending three plus years applying EVERYWHERE you can just to be turned down or never contacted back. I also found out that he's been talking shit about me on facebook and that he's got the support of people who overall just hated me and were willing to lie about past events just to discredit me... I thought that after high school ended that the rumor telling would have ended and people would have been happy just to cut those they hated out of their lives? The worst part? I found out my sister LOVED the post he put about me to slander me...



This was one hell of a way to start my bad day thread, it might grow worse as the days go on... but like some jerk on the internet once said, "first world problems"
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Kaya
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I'm so sorry this happened sweetie.

Unfortunately, rumors and other bullshit don't stop after high school. It's life, and life can be a bitch sometimes.

I truly hope that your brother will apologize, and that your relationship will ultimately be repaired.

For now, all you can do is give him some space and be patient.

<3

It'll all be okay.
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buraikazuma
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as long as I stay in my room, I live... the candle does not burn
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things have eased up, but he'll never apologize... pride is something he inherited from my father, I inherited my mother's humility. I just hope he's not as angry anymore...
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Mayu <3
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I'm so sorry
I do wish things will ease up even more
and even if it takes awhile,
know that things will eventually take a turn for the better!
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buraikazuma
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as long as I stay in my room, I live... the candle does not burn
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I really hope things turn better, but knowing my brother and all he's inherited from my father... they probably won't be better for long. But with myself being so subservient, things might just stay stable as long as I don't draw attention to his idiocy
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buraikazuma
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as long as I stay in my room, I live... the candle does not burn
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small update, things are a bit better... my brother and I for the most part are on the same page. Mostly because with his stress in college I'm the only person around to help him cope considering my mom's busy with work at her job and my dad has been on a business trip since August and will be returning at the end of this week.


I'm still bummed that I couldn't find a job especially since a certain set of conventions are coming and I would really like to attend...



So, yeah... dragon has no problems right now but I'll keep this thread in mind if it is still open when I hit trouble again
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I'm glad things are becoming better, even if its at a slow pace.
And we would all be happy to help as much as possible if you do hit trouble again ^^
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buraikazuma
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as long as I stay in my room, I live... the candle does not burn
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I heard what happened, it isn't right... I'm not in the best mood right now because of it
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Mayu <3
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Nor is everyone else XD
But we are trying our hardest to put this aside us and focus on our other future events in the future ^^
I'm also kind of annoyed that everyone on the Ikkicon page is ranting at us for supposedly not having food handle licenses when more than half of the members in our organization do have one and the rest are in plans to get one soon, but I feel like if I post about it, it will just continue the fighting so I'm trying to stay out of it.
But as I said, everyone is trying to just put this speedbump to the side and start focussing on the future ^^
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buraikazuma
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as long as I stay in my room, I live... the candle does not burn
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the internet is full of trolls... I'm sure the person who is slandering you all is someone who is just mad and wanted to take someone down, either that or they're someone from the rival service that was gunning for your spot. I don't mean to spread rumors but this smells very fishy to me.


I can't think of anyone who would really be sour toward y'all though... from what I experienced at AO, you gals were the best candidates for Ikki and I heard you made last year really memorable for the attendees. I haven't been on the Ikki forum and I don't plan on it after seeing how people attacked you on their facebook page.


Again, apologies... I'm really sorry this unpleasantness is causing such a commotion. I'm really angry at how rabid people are when they hide behind anonymity.
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Dec 17 2012, 07:36 AM
Nor is everyone else XD
But we are trying our hardest to put this aside us and focus on our other future events in the future ^^
I'm also kind of annoyed that everyone on the Ikkicon page is ranting at us for supposedly not having food handle licenses when more than half of the members in our organization do have one and the rest are in plans to get one soon, but I feel like if I post about it, it will just continue the fighting so I'm trying to stay out of it.
But as I said, everyone is trying to just put this speedbump to the side and start focussing on the future ^^

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Why is everyone on the Ikkicon page is ranting at us for supposedly not having food handle licenses? Why does that matter? Are we supposed to serve food?

Rosebud
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RosebudTheMaid
Dec 17 2012, 03:42 PM
Mayu <3
Dec 17 2012, 07:36 AM
Nor is everyone else XD
But we are trying our hardest to put this aside us and focus on our other future events in the future ^^
I'm also kind of annoyed that everyone on the Ikkicon page is ranting at us for supposedly not having food handle licenses when more than half of the members in our organization do have one and the rest are in plans to get one soon, but I feel like if I post about it, it will just continue the fighting so I'm trying to stay out of it.
But as I said, everyone is trying to just put this speedbump to the side and start focussing on the future ^^

:o

Why is everyone on the Ikkicon page is ranting at us for supposedly not having food handle licenses? Why does that matter? Are we supposed to serve food?

Rosebud

We do serve food.

Many of our maids do have food handler's licenses, and those who don't are taking the test to get one.

Three more maids got their licenses last month.

All the food we serve is prepared by maids with food handler's licenses, and this year we were going to have a catering company prepare the food and bring it to the cafe so the con would feel better, and so the con goers would feel more at ease as well.


We had this all worked out, but then...well...you know the rest.
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This was unfortunate... but like I stated in another thread, they're missing out on the best. No one can replace y'all!
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Thank you so much for your support. <3
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It's no problem... I hate to ask this, but is there any word on who's allegedly replacing y'all? I'm very sorry...
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