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uncomfortable tension
Topic Started: Jun 2 2008, 07:10 PM (745 Views)
BoJoLo
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ureshii, akiaki suru...(watashi wa tochimasu desu)
I dont know about anyone else, but I have been feeling very uncomfortable on the site lately. I dont know how to describe how I feel, but I dont feel as attatched as when I joined.....

can anyone help?
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Jejex
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What we need is somethin like an event like a contest or a special day where we do things different.
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Rei ~Dark Goddess~
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I know, but is will pass. Give things time is all I can think to say really.


My World Is A Dark One.

I'm running from my past
What's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
Wanna right all of my wrongs
Wat's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
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JakeHeatfist
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We should just have one big party blowout :music:
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BoJoLo
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I guess now is a good time to talk to you guys about this.....

me and chad were discussing a while back how we felt about the forum...and I didnt want to join back of for a while...that was in the time of when I was gone for a lot of months....

It was because of the sites going down...and I have felt an emptiness inside...

I dont feel attatched to the site as much as I did before :cry:

I have been able to get more attatched to it with a bunch of new friends and everything, but I miss some old friends that I may never be able to speak to again, and I have felt somewhat lonely and I dont know why...its been like this ever since I left before, and its thanks to chad that i decided to come back on, but I even told obito that I was going to quit the site....but I came back on.....that kind of explains some of my earlier freak outs too....I was calm about it for a while, but I missed you guys so much, so I joined up again

ever since I joined I have felt somewhat uneasy, sometimes more uneasy than other times. but I just couldnt stay away. I told chad that we should just both get on at once, and he agreed, but he didnt.....I havent spoken to him ever since I came back on, and I havent spoken to gaasaku or fangirl or volleyball girl, alfalfa, and so many others......and I only (out of them) spoke to fangirl so far...

I know I cant leave. I have too many friends on here, but I dont know what to do T_T I miss my other friends so much.....and I dont feel like I will be able to talk to them ever again....

advice?
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Jejex
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Well I'm glad your still here. :great:
And did you say volleyball girl? Has in Volleyball Girl 20?
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BoJoLo
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???

I know her as narutovolleyballgirl but maybe?
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JakeHeatfist
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All I can tell you is, work with what is available. All those others may not be on anymore, but we are here. As long as you got buddies to talk to, I think you can cope. I say that out of personal experience. I had friends back in grade school who talked to me everyday. Now, they either don't talk to me at all, or hate me for some reason. But I met friends like you to replace what I have lost. So be happy. :)
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Rei ~Dark Goddess~
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It all works itself out. In my life waiting, and hoping for the best hasn't always worked but it is the only thing I know how to do.

I talked to Chad at 4:40am my time.

I have many reasons to leave, and reasons to stay. But for the most part I stay because...hell I don't even know anymore to be honest.


My World Is A Dark One.

I'm running from my past
What's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
Wanna right all of my wrongs
Wat's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
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BoJoLo
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I enjoy my new friends but its not as easy as that :cry:
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JakeHeatfist
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BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 07:32 PM
I enjoy my new friends but its not as easy as that :cry:

I know its hard man. Heck, there was this great girl I liked in grade school that one day moved away. I felt as empty as you seem to feel right now. As Rei says, it will pass over time, and the feeling will be replaced with a more positive feeling.
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Jejex
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BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 11:28 PM
???

I know her as narutovolleyballgirl but maybe?

K then let me see somethin!
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BoJoLo
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Jun 2 2008, 07:31 PM
It all works itself out. In my life waiting, and hoping for the best hasn't always worked but it is the only thing I know how to do.

I talked to Chad at 4:40am my time.

I have many reasons to leave, and reasons to stay. But for the most part I stay because...hell I don't even know anymore to be honest.

thats practically how i feel...but I dont even talk to chad anymore. we spoke about lots of fun things :rolleyes:

LOL
we had so much fun :lol:
.......but then I started to envy him...he has a gf, an awesome free lifestyle...oh how i could use one...I asked him for advice and he gave me good advice everytime i asked him...I told him that I may just quit the site because of all the chaos....but then I feared how the site was, and you guys and never talking to any of you again...I was so happy to find out how many people made it here...I was lost you might say....I didnt know how to get here, but then I found a link and came...what a relief. I think that my new friends here and my old buddies here made me stay....I still almost feel the same way I was talking to chad now though...
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Hollynoel
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When friends have left me or I have left them, I feel the best thing is to move on. There are always others out there to talk to. Sure they might not be as close, but they are still there. Ans if you talk enough, they might become close or even closer than the people you can't talk to anymore.

Something really surprising happened to me the other day though. This person who I haven't talked to in about 5 years, messaged me. It was kind of strange, but we managed to catch up a bit though. I dunno how he found me, it must be my strange name. XD

So even if they haven't talked to you in a while, there's always that chance that you'll be chatting soon. It's best just to leave that to chance, instead of waiting for them, because you could be waiting for a long time.

In the end, a long walk alone should help you sort out your feelings. It's good stuff!
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BoJoLo
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I cant just let a friend go though. I would puch myself in the face if I gave up trying to find a friend. I spent two years trying to find the love of my life, no success. I had no choice but to give up on her.......but I wont give up on you guys.
you guys are some of the closest friends that I have honestly ever had :lol:
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Hollynoel
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BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 08:51 PM
I cant just let a friend go though. I would puch myself in the face if I gave up trying to find a friend. I spent two years trying to find the love of my life, no success. I had no choice but to give up on her.......but I wont give up on you guys.
you guys are some of the closest friends that I have honestly ever had :lol:

If they aren't looking for you, why bother?

If you are close friends, they should search for you as well.
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BoJoLo
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I cant help it though. I have to at least try. its in my nature :)
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Hollynoel
Jun 2 2008, 11:54 PM
BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 08:51 PM
I cant just let a friend go though. I would puch myself in the face if I gave up trying to find a friend. I spent two years trying to find the love of my life, no success. I had no choice but to give up on her.......but I wont give up on you guys.
you guys are some of the closest friends that I have honestly ever had :lol:

If they aren't looking for you, why bother?

If you are close friends, they should search for you as well.

She has a very good point


My World Is A Dark One.

I'm running from my past
What's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
Wanna right all of my wrongs
Wat's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
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L_O_V_E
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well...bojolo, im sorry u feel this way... :abouttocry: *hug* if u need to talk u know im here and so is every1 else...
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Rei ~Dark Goddess~
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Sometimes you have to say to people "Fuck you, up the ass with a hot metal pole"


My World Is A Dark One.

I'm running from my past
What's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
Wanna right all of my wrongs
Wat's done I can't redo
I'm just, looking in my rearview
Looking in my rearview
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BoJoLo
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Jun 2 2008, 08:58 PM
Sometimes you have to say to people "Fuck you, up the ass with a hot metal pole"

I dont think I could unless it was someone I hated

anyways I got to go so cya tomarrow!
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Hollynoel
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Owch.

But yes, sometimes it's best to just forget about people, if you dwell on them too long you'll go crazy.
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Jejex
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(note to self: avoid rei when she has a metal pole near by)

Later Bo!
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Zikau
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BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 07:10 PM
I dont know about anyone else, but I have been feeling very uncomfortable on the site lately. I dont know how to describe how I feel, but I dont feel as attatched as when I joined.....

can anyone help?

Personally I think this forum lacks... CHAD!
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Jessica
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Zikau
Jun 2 2008, 10:20 PM
BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 07:10 PM
I dont know about anyone else, but I have been feeling very uncomfortable on the site lately. I dont know how to describe how I feel, but I dont feel as attatched as when I joined.....

can anyone help?

Personally I think this forum lacks... CHAD!

i think thats probably true.
don't fuckin` blame me...
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BoJoLo
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THATS WHAT I TOLD HIM!!!!!!

he seemed like he was avoiding getting on though O_o

I told him that eveyone would be missing us a lot, and he agreed. so we decided that we would come out of retirement you might say and get back on the sight.
but I ended up being the only one. I wonder what changed his mind???
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Hollynoel
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Zikau
Jun 2 2008, 10:20 PM
BoJoLo
Jun 2 2008, 07:10 PM
I dont know about anyone else, but I have been feeling very uncomfortable on the site lately. I dont know how to describe how I feel, but I dont feel as attatched as when I joined.....

can anyone help?

Personally I think this forum lacks... CHAD!

Agriid!
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BoJoLo
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did you even read my message? :rolleyes:
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Jejex
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BoJoLo
Jun 3 2008, 11:07 AM
THATS WHAT I TOLD HIM!!!!!!

he seemed like he was avoiding getting on though O_o

I told him that eveyone would be missing us a lot, and he agreed. so we decided that we would come out of retirement you might say and get back on the sight.
but I ended up being the only one. I wonder what changed his mind???

He must have had somthin come up and couldn't.
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CrimsonCat101
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BoJoLo, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting your old friends. Well except Fangirl, but other then that...

You may not be as attached to this forum, but it doesn't mean you won't become attached. You can't replace friends, but you can make more, so those holes feel smaller.

I hope this 'uncomfotable tension' disappears. I got it a few times, but it always left after a short while.

P.S. (I had a sudden urge to relate it with math....that was weird XD I'm such a geek)
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Warshadow
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Gone...
one chad works alot he barely has time for the forum...
I know you guys miss him but ... :abouttocry: :abouttocry:

We need to be strong :cry: :cry:

I miss chad so much!!!

*somebody hold me!!!!!!
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BoJoLo
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*holds warshadow and cries on his shoulder* :abouttocry: :cry:
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Warshadow
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Gone...
Chad!!!

Why did you desive us!!!!
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BoJoLo
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ureshii, akiaki suru...(watashi wa tochimasu desu)
WHY DIDNT YOU COME BACK TO US!!!!!
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Warshadow
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Gone...
and you left zikau with a baby all by herself!!!

Ooops I wasent suppose to say that out loud!!!

Why doI keep screaming outloud!!!
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