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Topic Started: Nov 7 2009, 04:48 PM (111 Views)
Jdog101
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We all know what this is so don't go clueless on my ass.
Good or bad? Talk about it here and refrain from bad language.
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S-mAnX
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I don't know. It's good because sometimes having someone who understands you and someone you can be completely open with is something that everyone should want, but there is a down side. Sometimes dating gets complicated because of the different backgrounds, interests and opinions. This should seem like something that happens with friends or other people that you are close to, but a girlfriend (boyfriend...I suppose) has a stronger opinion on you and you can sometimes feel as thought hat this feel kill you. Sometimes getting in too deep is bad. That's why I say good, but keep it simple.
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Jdog101
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of course Suhayl knows why I made this topic....as well as others.

I personally think it's nice to have a shoulder to lean on, some sort of safety net to land on, someone to turn to. But then again, I've been the safety net and sunshine to a lot of people (even though I never understood the signals).
Yeah, it's nice to have one, just don't slut them out.
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S-mAnX
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O.o
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Salty
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Dating is haram, so I don't see why YOU guys are discussing it, assuming you're both Muslims.
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painewwf
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...no it isn't, people date in the engagement to marriage period :)
I wouldn't know anything on this topic >.> (REJECTED)
But just a question: do you think you should ask someone out if you guys are friends? not BEST friends but good friends?
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Jdog101
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Depends where you are on the friend scale, in my opinion.
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Personally I think dating is a great way to get to know someone in a different light. I'm older than most of you and although I'm not terribly experienced in the world of dating I have had a few experiences, each of them different. The first was when I was 16, I dated a guy who later cheated on me with my cousin. Not fun but in the end it turned out he was gay so I look back and count myself lucky he made a lot of bad choices or I'd have gotten hurt further down the line than I did.

The next wasn't for quite a few years, this one was a disaster. I got to know the guy, I grew to 'love' him after just a few weeks. We seemed to be complete opposites but at the same time had so much stuff in common. Then I got the dreaded text dump. I was devastated, I cried, I felt sick, it was horrible. Looking back on it I learned a few things. Guys will tell you a lot of things to get what they want. Guys can be the sweetest thing in the world and then turn on you just like that *snaps fingers* but most importantly I learned not to let someone become your everything before you truly know them because you might find out they're worth nothing to you in the end.

This all sounds like horror after horror but there is a shining light at the end of the tunnel. I've now been in a relationship with my boyfriend for seventeen months (as of the 19th of this month). We have our ups and downs, I throw tantrums, he sulks in corners but the one thing that seems to prevail is the fact that now we know the ins and outs of each others lives and personalities we know what will put a smile on the others' face and that we love each other even if at the time we're boiling over with anger. I know now that this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, the person I want to be the Father of my children and this is all because we dated and got to know each other before making any committments.

Personally, dating for me will always be the first step to the rest of your life, whether it's a good or bad relationship you will always take a life lesson from it so in the end it builds character and ensures you go out into the big bad world with your eyes wide open.
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Jdog101
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I'm sorry to hear you cried.

That's an excellent explanation caligo. I'm surprised no one shared experiences, and then again, the only two on this site with experiences are Suhayl and caligo.
It's nice having someone listening to you, but don't take it for granted. The more you depend on people, the more it hurts in the end because your life is starting to base of them. If I dated and got dumped, I'd deal with it normally. It would be another day in my life, only a lot easier or harder depending on the situation. Thing is with me, I listen to people and they depend on me for support. I never do that, discuss maybe, but I never let myself get too weak or even let my guard down to begin with. In otherwords, if I get dumped, at least I can keep going because I'm strong enough to.

(thanks for stories caligo!)
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Axel
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...no it isn't, people date in the engagement to marriage period
I wouldn't know anything on this topic >.> (REJECTED)
But just a question: do you think you should ask someone out if you guys are friends? not BEST friends but good friends?[quote/]

Well are you engaged to the person you are going with.... NO, so it is haram.

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Well, i am a person that follows their religion, im not saying im a monk or something, but i do pay attention to what my religion taught me, and from what i concluded, It is haram, i dont mind having friends that are female (although i dont have any, school seperates Male and Female Classes), but i wont go as far as you people are talking about, And Salty, yes they might be doing something wrong, but then again, not everyone follows everything their religion tells them to do and therefor all you can do is give advice.

As far as i go, I am not involved in such a relationship, and i am not intending to anytime soon, i have enough Male Friends that i can lean on, they dont have to be female and kiss-able so you can 'lean' on them, My friends are there for me in good and bad times, and thats good enough for me.
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Axel
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true, same goes for me, except the male and female separation. But ya, i feel the same way, i wouldnt go too far.
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painewwf
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*cough* aly *cough* JK

well Axel have you heard of temporary marriage? it's a Bahrani shia thing where you can marry someone for 20 years without telling your parents XD

it's funny when people only follow somethings in a religion then when something haram happens "OH! HARAM HARAM" funny lol
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Axel
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who the hell is aly?
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painewwf
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that guy with braces that stares at you all day!!! I'm kidding dude :D
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