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| I suck at talking to people | |
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| Topic Started: Jun 10 2007, 11:44 AM (282 Views) | |
| Some Polar Bears | Jun 10 2007, 11:44 AM Post #1 |
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Basically as the title says: I suck at pointless conversations. I'm pretty good at talking to people if I have a reason for talking to them. If I'm just shooting the bull - you know, idle conversation - I lock up. I stat thinking about how I have nothing to say and then I get uncomfortable for not saying anything, and I then I get even more uncomfortable for the other person being uncomfortable and then I usually just say something stupid and go away.  I'd just love to be able to speak without anxiety to people. I'd love to start a random conversation with someone and you know, just enjoy talking for the heck of it. I'd love to meet new people like this. It'd just make everything easier if I didn't have this block in my head whenever I tried speaking with people. So yeah. Share your experiences (if you have them -- can it be that I'm the only freak in the universe who does this :() and advice on how to become more sociable. |
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| thedebo | Jun 26 2007, 01:28 AM Post #2 |
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i like to go up talk to someone, get name, age, etc. then walk away and call them sometime. there's only a certain number of people you just click with at first. and if you spend the whole night talking to that one person, that leaves out the rest of the girls at the bar, club, etc, that you could be talking to . |
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