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I have a problem; top eight positions.
Topic Started: Feb 10 2006, 03:44 AM (559 Views)
LyndsayJ
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ok so i haven't been with my boyfriend for all that long, but we're really serious and in love... and i know that he really does love me. anyway... the other day a friend of his kissed him and he kissed back. he told me about it right away and felt really guilty. anyway, he had me at his number two spot on myspace and she was number three... so the next day he switched us. and we joked about but then he told me that she had gotten mad that i was before her... and he still won't change it and it's been like two days. am i being out of line being upset about this?
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Some Polar Bears
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It depends on how pretty she is... :D
Anyways, maybe he just forgot to switch it back? Or haven't had time? How often does he log on to myspace?
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LyndsayJ
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haha... she's sorta pretty... i'm prettier than her though, haha. but he's definitely had time to switch it back and he's on myspace plenty and i know he hasn't forgotten. and i've told him that i want him to change it and he won't.
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Some Polar Bears
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Hmmm, maybe you should talk to him seriously if you don't like it.
He might take a step further. But I don't know how he is in the real world, maybe he likes to jokes around a lot ;)
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THE PUNISHER
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im confused
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ShelleyOxOBear
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Yeah, I would hate that too if there was a diff. girl in front of my on Myspace. Its just the order of friends....but its diff. in a way if you think about it. lol. My BF has me first and never moves me from the #1 spot....if he did, I would feel weird about it and ask him about it, well, if another girl was #1. :blink:
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Cid
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I think you're being too sensitive. If you're his girlfriend bitch him out, that's your right.


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usodumb
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:wonders: So what exaclty is the problem. Let's ask ourselves a few questions. 1) Was he friends with her before he started dating you?
2) Does she have a romantic interest in him, or was it a harmless or even drunk kiss?
3) If she does have a romantic interest in him, does he plan on taking any steps to make ensure this never happens again?
4) Would he consider not being friends with her if he felt his relationship was in jeopardy?
And last but not least...
5) Are you really as pathetic and stupid as I think you are?

Now let me answer a few and give you my opinion.

1) I'm going to assume that he was friends with her before he started dating you.
2) I'm also going to assume that yes, she does have a romantic interest in him.
3) Seeing as he won't change his top 8 for you and he still talks to her, chances are he's probably not going to take action.
4) Highly doubt it.
5) I do believe so.

Now here's my opinion. You are stupid and you need to grow up. Myspace is not real life!!! My boyfriend isn't on my top 8. My top 8 consists of my friends. And he's ok with it. Because he knows I truly love him. And because he is secure in where our relationship is. If he were to ask or tell me to take one of my friends off my top 8 to replace him I would tell him no. And I applaud your boyfriend for saying that to you. Do you know why? Because no matter how many immature little bimbos come into his life he is always going to have his friends. They are the ones that who will stick around for the long haul. So here's my prediction. He's going to realize that you are a needy, demanding, immature, and insecure little brat. He's going to dump you. Hook up with this friend of his and they are going to live happily ever after. The end.
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=HnPU7Ca-KJ4&search=myspace

Start it up around 60%, this made me think of that
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JodiLynn1981
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duuude.. I think that originally there was no harm done in the beginnng.. his friend is obviously the one that is immature and u shouldnt have to put up with this.. whether it is wrong or right to ask him to move her. it is the point that you ASKED himto move her.. he now knows he is doing something that bothers you and he isnt doing anything about it.. and basically rubbing it in your face...fk him
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Brandon
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Haha, I love people that bitch about their order on my Myspace. How dumb. Anyways, yeah your b/f doesn't love you, we're just really good at tricking girls. Who's the smarter sex now?
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